Managing Conflict Effectively
Monthly tip for October
Conflict is a part of our work and personal lives – it is inherent in all relationships. Although conflict can be problematic, the goal is not to eliminate it, the goal is to manage it effectively. Unresolved or mismanaged conflict has been shown to have grave consequences for successful outcomes.
Here are three steps to help you manage conflict more effectively:
1. Know your style of conflict management
- Competing
- Accommodation
- Avoiding
- Compromise
- Collaboration
2. Practice your skills for resolving conflict
- Active listening
- “I” statements
- Understanding perspective
3. Evaluate
- What worked?
- What did not work?
- What can I improve?
- What should I continue to do?
This training challenges participants to think differently about conflict and teaches skills to be able to address conflict more effectively.